There are 18 Rules/Secrets to discussing issues with your significant other. You should have a copy of these rule and they should be posted on your refrigerator. These rules are not always easy to follow. However, once you adopt them as your own, your life rapidly gets better.
While these rules seem very simple, there is a great deal of history and thought behind each. For this reason, there are three video segments describing the rules and sharing how to most effectively employ the rule/secret. This Video segment covers rules 7 through 12.